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kippurbirdI went on a twenty three and a half mile bike ride today. I'm exhausted and my chest hurts. It's hard to breathe. But I can't believe I did that. I never want to do that again.
But that's not the worst thing that's happened to me today. Mom's going up to Santa Barbara for a couple of days because Ari's getting really bad. Suicidal bad. Complete and utter melt down bad. Last time that happened he had to go to the hospital. There's nothing I can do except stay out of the way really. It's frustrating because I can't help and I just want to make it all better. But the way to help it become better is not to do anything at all.
I just have to try to plug along and not make anything worse for mom so that she can focus on Ari. And try to be supportive as possilbe, I guess.
But that's not the worst thing that's happened to me today. Mom's going up to Santa Barbara for a couple of days because Ari's getting really bad. Suicidal bad. Complete and utter melt down bad. Last time that happened he had to go to the hospital. There's nothing I can do except stay out of the way really. It's frustrating because I can't help and I just want to make it all better. But the way to help it become better is not to do anything at all.
I just have to try to plug along and not make anything worse for mom so that she can focus on Ari. And try to be supportive as possilbe, I guess.
